The Leading Man

January 16, 2010

Since the last post was on the subject of children, this will concern the children’s father. This subject is rather a…well, it’s not a subject I like. That is, I don’t like the idea of having to marry and making sure I choose the right fellow, nor do I like the idea of  the small population of young millionaires in the world.

I believe I could marry for money. I am not an Elizabeth Bennet and I know that money does  make a significant difference (although notice how Jane Austen’s characters so conveniently fell in love with men that just happened to be rich). Looks and money do matter, and love really doesn’t. Friendship is more important than anything– well, actually money is, but friendship is a close second.

Whomever I marry I need to make sure will be good to any children we have. Nothing is more taxing on a Mother than being a Wife…and vise versa. 

I really have no preference to style and looks (good nose and chin are all I ask), I do, however, have a preference to Nationality. Jewish, English, Scottish or Norwegian are all good with me. I might let a few others on the list, but only a very few.

The property is important. The family is important. The title is very important!  He doesn’t have to have one, but if he does, I would prefer something more extravagant and aristocratic. Nothing like “Sir Blah blah blah”, anyone can be a Sir. But if he were born with it, that would give it something closer to dignity.

Talent’s and hobbies are also important, but that’s still up in the air. Singer or painter? African big game hunter or Rugby player? I have no idea, and that’s something that can be changed anyway.

Character? Phlegmatic or Sanguine.  Intelligence? As much as me or a little more.  Age? Anywhere from my age to fifteen years above. Occupation? Hopefully he won’t need one, but if he does, I’d say Politician, Professor (of anything but math), Writer…whatever…just something with brains.

I’ve got to do the dishes now (which, by the way, will be done by a maid in the future), but at least I finally posted. And what a post.

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7 Responses to “The Leading Man”

  1. Keri Says:

    I think that I like your “ideal” very much. We may end up fighting over him!
    Beware-I have sharp teeth

  2. Ariel Says:

    I will say that I agree with most everything you have said, but, being the romantically inclined person I am (Why are you sniggering?) I would like to at least feel that he loves me a little bit. But you are right, mmarrying for love and only love usually isn’t all it’s talked up to be.

  3. Hannah Becker Says:

    It’s never all it’s talked up to be.
    True, I don’t mind if he wants to love me, he has to ask first, anyway, but let’s use our heads here.

  4. N.Maria Says:

    I don’t advise a Scot- however much money he has, he’s still going to be a skinflint. But I don’t see what your problem with young millionaires is- any wise golddigger knows the key is to pick an old millionaire, the older the better. Not only do they leave inheritances to their loving spouses sooner, they also tend to spoil such spouses when they are young and beautiful. However, I sincerely doubt that you’ll manage to actually marry for money when it comes down to it; reread Amy’s confession in “Little Women”. Good luck at trying.

  5. Hannah Becker Says:

    I intend to stand firm. I’ll marry for wealth or not at all. Besides, Amy married a rich man anyway…the liar.

  6. N.Maria Says:

    But she was smart enough to fall in love with him.

  7. Hannah Becker Says:

    Liking a lot is good enough for me.

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